In His Own Words
About Him
THE WALLS WE SURROUND OURSELVES
You cannot go into a relationship hoping and expecting the other person will "break down" the walls that you had put up around your heart, soul and being. Entering into a relationship with this expectation is not only unfair towards your partner, it is a sure way to destroy that which was meant to become special in the future.
If you are willing to stay inside the walls that you had put up, it is better not to engage in a serious relationship. Those walls were put up for a reason in your mind and a conclusion you reached in your heart. Whatever it may be, you were the architect of those walls and YOU need to be the one to break them down..
To say "I will wait for someone to love me the right way" before you start demolishing, will never happen and is of no value in your future interaction with the opposite gender.
By doing so, you not only put a huge responsibility on that person's shoulders, but you are again handing them the right to your happiness and a sure way of ending up behind walls again.
Therefore, make sure your walls are coming down before making a commitment because this shows emotional growth as well as an indicator that you are healed from past hurt and disappointment.
By living inside the perimeter of your walls, you can't ever truly love, feel, or live in new ways because that which you took with you when you entered the walls will stay your companion while locked in together.
This is why so many people live every day in their hurt, sorrow, and negative outlook on love and life.
ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE TO DEMOLISH OR TO RENOVATE...km
About His Ideal Match
She must be trustworthy, loving, passionate and a child of God.
Commitment is non-negotiable. romantic and a a person who loves touching, kissing and holding hands ..
Wanneer mens opreg en waarlik lief het, gee jy jou hart vir daardie person om binne in hom/haar te dra en word jou hart daardie person sn...maw 2 mense ruil harte om. Daarom moet hulle dan mekaar se lewens oppas, by mekaar staan, mekaar dra deur moeilike tye en goeie tye...mekaar beskerm en koester want as die ander person sou "sterf"in verhouding dan beteken dit dood eenvoudig dat dit jy is wat "sterf"..... pas daarom mekaar op en cherish die liefde elke oomblik want deur dit te doen maak jy seker jou hart klop nog more....
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Mossel Bay, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Balding | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
48 - 73 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Portuguese | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Investing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Dancesport; Extreme sports; Motorsport; Rugby; Scuba diving; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |