In Her Own Words
About Her
Single mom to 6 year old daughter.
Love being outdoors and enjoy the simple things in life, like grabbing coffee and watching the sun rise or going for an early morning run.
Keep fit by going to the gym and swimming.
Enjoy going out but quite happy to have a night at home with sushi, wine, good company and conversation.
Self dependant, fun and adventurous.
Having a picture of YOU on your profile is the first part to selling yourself
About Her Ideal Match
Someone who enjoys being active and enjoys partaking in some sort of fitness / sport.
Social person whether it's with friends or family.
Enjoy doing things together as a couple but understanding that we dont have to live in each others pocket 24/7
I am not looking for a sugar daddy or blesser !
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Hillcrest (Kloof), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Food Services | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
46 - 56 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I love it |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Cricket; Cycling; Rock climbing; Running; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |


