In His Own Words
About Him
KInd, considerate, good listener and great communicator. Passionate about what I do. Very liberal in my outlook on life and have little time for narrow minded, toxic, entitlement. Place enormous value on quality connection with people and prefer the deep, and meaningful. Love reading, good theatre and watching series. Walks along the sea are my way to unwind. 80s music is where I am in my element and you can put me on a dancefloor the whole night. I may be adding up the years but am fit, healthy and no fossil in terms of attitude and outlook. And definitely not serious all the time....
About His Ideal Match
Someone who values quality connection. Good communicator who is emotionally ingtelligent and appreciates kindness. A person who is looking to share space with a partner and have a life of their own at the same time. Would need to be mature in terms of outlook. I am not looking for a clone and I don't expect to have everything in common with someone. Preferably a non-smoking, non-drinking, and definitely non-drugging person who values health and well-being but is not obsessed. Own home, own transport essential. If you are looking for a sugar daddy, I am clearly not for you. To quote from arguably one of the greatest dance songs ever, "I need aman who'll take the chance on a love that burns hot enough to last".
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Atlantic Seaboard, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Vegan | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
28 - 54 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 187cm (6' 1.6") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; None (Bald); Balding | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Political; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Dramas; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Drama |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |